For starters, you should never make your partner do anything which makes them uncomfortable. Also, you should not do anything you are not comfortable with, either!
Now, since we have that out of the way, giving oral pleasure can often be tricky for girls, particularly if you have never done it before. Blowjobs often trigger the gag reflex for many women if they try to take it too deeply.
The gag reflex is a contraction of the throat that happens when something touches the roof of your mouth, the back of your tongue or throat, or the area around your tonsils. It can also lead the lady to puke. Icky? You bet.
Nevertheless, this does not mean that it cannot be done. Follow these steps and you will be able to gradually achieve your goal:
Do not push it: Always let the girl be in control. If you try to control the movement, you will inevitably get lost in the moment and start pushing/forcing it too much. If you do not want puke on your junk, always let her be in control. Keep your hands off her head!
Communicate: Make sure that she is comfortable while doing it while guiding her on her way. Tell her that what she is doing makes you feel amazing, so it is not just something that she wants to “get it over with” without any fun. The more confident and relaxed she is, the deeper you will be able to go.
Tell her to breathe: Apart from triggering the gag reflex, loss of breath is another reason why blowjobs are uncomfortable. Keep reminding your partner to breathe, so she is never out of breath. Breathing will also make her calmer, thereby making the entire experience much better!
Try these tips and let us know how it went!
