It can feel unnatural to start dirty talking if you are new to it. It's okay. You might feel a little strange doing something for the first time. Before we get into the tips, let us remind you that sex is not always about being dirty. However, it can be a great way for you to have more variety and increase your eroticism. It can also help you and your partner bond in a completely new way.
1. Start Being More Expressive
As with any skill, practice is the first step. Be vocal and make some noises. You can begin by doing it when you are masturbating alone, and gradually start doing it with your partner as well. Do not try to be a complete sex slave right away. Just get comfortable with your voice. The dirty talk should still sound like you.
2. Be More Creative
Once you have started to practice your "sex sounds", you can be more creative. It's easy to get into dirty talk by saying what you like or want. It's easy to say, for example, "take my from behind, baby" or "I love it when I pin you down." Or, you can even express what you feel in the moment like "this feels so good" and "your hand feels incredible" Both are a turn on and very hot.
3. Build Some Suspense
Sexting is usually a great way to start this. You can do this: Write down your most memorable sexual moments ("remember last weekend, you and I, in the kitchen?").? Tell your partner what you want, and they will do it next time you get together. You don't have to be vague, but you should be specific and detailed. Make it a story. Tell them about your sexual fantasies. To create an unforgettable erotic experience, start with the setting. Take it slow and be as specific as possible.
Remember, talking dirty is supposed to be fun! It might feel a little awkward at first, so start slow, and realize that it might take some time to feel real. You get to focus on saying what makes you feel sexy!
